4 Types Of S*x You Should Avoid, No Matter How Good it Feels
S-E-X! It may be good for your heart, great for your mood and
even work wonders on your skin, but not all types offer the same
benefits.
Sometimes s*x can make a bad situation worse and leave you wishing
you hadn’t wasted your good underwear & clean sheets on a brief
fling with s*xual mediocrity.
Here are the 4 types of s*x to avoid at all cost.
1. Break-Up s*x: It may seem appealing to take one last
ride on that pony for old time’s sake, but the consequences will likely
outweigh the benefits. You’re breaking up, which means something isn’t
working. And even if s*x isn’t the cause of your break-up, it can
complicate an already delicate situation. For instance, it’s easy for
your partner to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to break-up
s*x, you don’t want your “It has been a pleasure doing business with
you,” to be misinterpreted for a “Thank you. Come again!” Even if you’re
the type who makes your intentions crystal clear, science still offers
warnings against break-up s*x. Romantic rejection and heartbreak trigger
the same parts of the brain associated with pain, distress and
addiction. It takes time to reduce these triggers and when the wound is
fresh, you don’t want to train your body to link s*x with these
conditions.
2. Drunk s*x: A few drinks may loosen you up and help
you to shed your inhibitions, but be sure to limit how many glasses you
down as you may end up shedding and downing more than you bargained for.
“Bottom’s up” may be in good fun at the bar, but you need to decide
whether you’re open to letting it take on a whole new meaning bedside.
If you plan on drinking, bear in mind that alcohol impairs your
judgment. Booze goggles not only cause light-of-day regret the following
morning, but also reduce the likelihood of using condoms and other
safer s*x tools – so plan ahead. And that liquid confidence may
seemingly improve your performance on the dance floor, but it can have
the opposite effect sexually. Alcohol impacts your body’s s*xual
response and circulation making erections and lubrication harder to come
by.
3. Self-Pity s*x (The One Night Stand): If you’re
having a little pity party for yourself and think that a one-night stand
will elevate your spirits, you may want to think again – especially if
you’re a woman. While a one-time roll in the hay (or nightclub restroom
stall) can be fun for some, women seem to get the short end of the stick
when it comes to casual s*x. And the short sticks aren’t to blame.
Research shows that over half (54 per cent) of women often feel
disappointed by one-night stands and report high levels of regret the
morning after. On the other hand, 80 per cent of men feel positively
about the experience and say that it helps them to blow off some steam.
Steam? Is that what they’re calling it these days? So before you take
the plunge and turn to casual s*x to lift your spirits, be sure to
consider other ways to crash the pity party.
4. Make-Up s*x: Experts are split on this one and you
can decide for yourself whether make-up s*x works for you. Some
psychologists believe that it rewards fighting, drama and generally bad
behaviour. They suggest that couples are dealing with intensely negative
emotions and instead of finding a resolution, they seek an opposite
experience (pleasure) in s*x. They argue that this type of s*x isn’t
“real intimacy” and that it can lead to loneliness and the belief that
everything can be fixed with s*x. What a world it would be if this were
true!
If you find yourself enticed by these four types of s*x, you may want
to take a moment to reconsider. And if you’re still tempted, at least
consider the laundry!
Source: MSN
4 Types Of S*x You Should Avoid, No Matter How Good it Feels
Reviewed by Adegunju Uthman
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April 01, 2015
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