4 Important Conversations To Have With Your Partner Before Sex
We are living in a world where love is hard to find and S3x is easy to give!
In as much as we are grateful we are living in the times of greater
equality, S3x is something that can go wrong very quickly. And when it
does go wrong, the consequences can be very devastating.
Hence when dealing with something as intimate and explosive as S3x,
it’s necessary to take certain precautions. A reasonable man should have
certain conversations with his woman before embarking on a S3xual
relationship.
CONSENT
Consent is a topic too important to overlook because you never want
to find yourself in such dubious situation. And with R@pe stats being
what they are, it is necessary to ensure the person you are having S3x
with actually wants to have S3x.
STDs And STIs
Diseases especially S3xually transmitted diseases and infections are
very real facts of life and there is absolutely nothing wrong in
addressing such issues before an intercourse. If you think having that
conversation is going to be awkward then imagine how awkward it will be
breaking the news of Syphilis to your partner.
PREGNANCY
Once the issue of STD has been sorted out and you feel you are free
to have unprotected S3x, another thing that needs to be carefully
thought out and discussed is Pregnancy. There is no fun in abortion or
raising a child you never planned for. The world has enough unwanted
children in it already so it’s either you use a condom, a pill or other
options available if you are not ready for a child.
DEFINE YOUR LIKES & BOUNDARIES
Certain people have things that works for them and what works for one
may not work for the other, so feel free to discuss your S3xual
positions that you like and those you are not comfortable with. Because
there is no point of having a S3xual intercourse if both of you don’t
enjoy it.
4 Important Conversations To Have With Your Partner Before Sex
Reviewed by Adegunju Uthman
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April 10, 2015
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